Friday, February 1, 2008

Help a Sister Out

I really need advice. I had this really good friend for 2 years. Suddenly,she starts caring about what the popular people think. She doesn't go to the A lunch Sisterhood because none of the "popular" people go. She doesn't talk to me anymore. She says we are still friends, but she is not being herself. I have no classes or lunch with her, so I don't get much of a chance to talk. What should I do to get her to truly be herself?

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

I went throught the same thing this year! its so hard. I dont know if you can get her to be herself...you cant change anyone but yourself. But you can pull her aside and talk to her about how you feel. I know this can be hard so maybe you can text her or write her a note if you dont want to talk face to face. Good luck and remember that everything will work out in the end!!!!

Anonymous said...

i talked to her. she said that she is just sad about what happened with this guy, and she didn't realized she was bringing her friends down with her. thank you so much for the advice! she is confused, and needs someone to talk to. So I am glad I did take your advice. thanks!