Thursday, January 10, 2008
Let's Help A Sister Out
Ok... I have this issue.Please help!?! So... I feel like I am alone since I have been here at this school. I don't know who is really my true friend. I have this one friend who I talk to sometimes, but I feel like I can't trust her because of the "click" she is in. I feel like I can't be myself... my outgoing, bubbly-self. Instead, I feel like I have to be "fake" and shy. You know what I mean? What do I do? Do I talk to her but be cautious? Do I talk to her like she is my true friend? Am I just being too cautious and need to gain trust toward her? I am SOOO confused. I really need help and I am putting my full and 100% trust in you, my sisters. Please help me.
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Wow... you do have a serious issue!(no offnese)I would definitly still talk to this girl. Since you said you just started to attend this school recently, you should probably just be yourself. Maybe a new girl will come along that is more like you. Like you said, be cautious and don't tell her something you don't want the whole school to know until you get to know her more. Gain some trust little at a time until you feel comfortable. Hope this helps! Sorry if I made it more complicated! Good luck with it all!
Talk it out. Be yourself no matter who you are with. If the person doesn't like you for who you are, don't hang out with them, because they are not a true friend. Also, it's ok to ask someone if you trust them. It's easy to slowly gain trust if you are yourself.
If you can't be yourself with someone, don't trust them. And remember, a clique has no loyalty. People do. Social groups don't.
Talk to this girl, but be cautious. See if they like you for who you are, or for who you pretend to be, then decide if you can trust them.
Good luck!
i know how you feel. The same thing started to happen to me. i showed everyone who i really am and i found a few true friends who i trust 100% it may take some time to find who your true friends are but trust me...u will find some.
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